Sunday, 2 December 2012

When all you hear is “Don’t try that, you will not make it”



Sometimes we wake up feeling very excited about a day. We expect a perfect day where we will amongst other things engage in activities set for it with no buts coming our way. Occasionally, we do have unique plans, and we wish that nothing goes wrong about the plan(s). When we manage to live a day as planned, it is always our moment of glory. However, when we face obstacles right from the very beginning, then it’ll take more than endurance to wield through.
Since last year, I got involved in an environmental project.  Ran by a group of students, it seeks to transform the waste sector in my community. As a group of students, we face a major challenge of factoring in adequate time to learn more about waste management in our society while also spending time in weekly to monthly activities around environmental management and conservation. Sometimes a month or semester elapses and we don’t quite meet our goals. But we have never at any time thought about quitting. There are many things in life that an individual may not be sure about, but when you finally identify what you are passionate about, then no one can stop you from pursuing it. Perhaps that’s one reason why I have personally devoted my time and energy to ensure that I will gain the necessary competency and skills to see the dream of proper waste management translate into action.
In a real world, I have come to understand more than ever before that you never reach your limit without a constant flow and blow of obstacles. Obstacles will always rain on you.  I sit down today and wonder whether to just let go of an opportunity whose occurrence probability is very slim. I have talked to the “right persons” about a certain pathway to take and most of them suggested a ‘no, back off or try something else or this is not going to work’. The most discouraging of them all was this particular morning when my own professor made me feel stupid and reckless by the kind of attitude and thoughts he shared. I got to a point where I began questioning my sanity and non-relenting attitude especially because that was not the first “I suggest you drop it” advice echoed to me in barely a fortnight. Yes it may not work, but can’t we always try and get to the ‘no it didn’t sail through point?’ Why is human nature more discouraging often that pursuing? If it were not for the constant trial nature even when one is losing a million times, then we wouldn’t be in the progressive world we see today.
Having felt terribly laid back and discouraged, I am not about to stop. I am pushing our idea through until the very end where the judge’s verdict may give us a reason to stop. Only then will I be content even upon getting an answer of “No try next time”. My mind is continuously whispering the little words ‘never underestimate the power of trying’. And if you can’t try then don’t be the fellow who is always quick to make a final negative comment towards a motivated/passion-driven mind. Because it’s only by that extra scoop of passion that we get things done differently.